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Existential crisis

An existential crisis is a state in which a person faces profound questions about the meaning of their life, their place in the world, and the nature of their existence. This state is often accompanied by doubt, anxiety, a feeling of emptiness, and an inability to find answers to important questions.

What is an existential crisis?

An existential crisis occurs when a person begins to question his or her existence:

— What is the meaning of my life?

— What place do I occupy in the world?

— Is there a higher purpose?

— What happens after death?

This condition can be caused by internal or external factors, such as an identity crisis, life changes, traumatic events, or deep philosophical reflection.

Causes of existential crisis

— Life changes

— Changing jobs, losing loved ones, ending a relationship, or retiring can lead to a reassessment of life goals.

— Feelings of loneliness or isolation

— Awareness of one’s own finitude or a feeling of lack of connection with other people can increase feelings of alienation.

— Loss of meaning

— When a person loses their usual bearings or goals, they may begin to doubt the meaning of their life.

— Facing crises of faith

— Questions of religion, spirituality and moral values often become a source of existential doubts.

Signs of an existential crisis

— A feeling of emptiness and loss of meaning.

— Increased anxiety or depression.

— Constant reflections on the finiteness of life.

— Inability to enjoy familiar things.

— The desire to withdraw into oneself and isolate oneself.

How to overcome an existential crisis?

— Recognition and acceptance

“It’s important to recognize that crisis is a natural part of the human experience. It can be a step toward personal growth.”

— Search for new meanings

— Setting new goals, participating in volunteer projects, or exploring new areas of knowledge can help you find inspiration.

— A conversation with a professional

— A psychologist or psychotherapist will help you gain a deeper understanding of your feelings and find ways to overcome them.

— Mindfulness practice

— Meditation, yoga, or simply being in the moment can help reduce anxiety and find inner balance.

— Support from loved ones

— Connecting with friends and family gives you a sense of connection and support.

Existential crisis as an opportunity for growth

Despite its complexity, an existential crisis can become a turning point leading to personal growth. This is a time for deep introspection, the search for new meaning, and strengthening one’s inner strength.

Methods of psychotherapy for existential crisis

An existential crisis is a condition in which a person faces profound questions about the meaning of life, their identity, and the finiteness of existence. Psychotherapy can be an effective way to help in such situations, offering tools for self-understanding and re-evaluating life’s values. Let’s consider the key psychotherapeutic methods used to address this type of crisis.

1. Existential therapy

The foundations of this method were laid by philosophers and psychotherapists such as Viktor Frankl, Irvin Yalom, and Rollo May. Existential therapy helps people accept their own finitude, the uncertainty of life, and the lack of predetermined meaning.

Basic principles:

— Acceptance of freedom and responsibility for one’s own life.

— Awareness of one’s own mortality as a factor that gives meaning to life.

— The search for individual meaning of existence.

Practices:

— Conversations about the finiteness of life, the fear of death and loneliness.

— Formation of a new view of difficulties as a source of internal growth.

2. Logotherapy (Victor Frankl)

The goal of logotherapy is to help a person find meaning in his or her life even in conditions of suffering and crisis.

Key ideas:

— A person can cope with any difficulties if he sees meaning in them.

— Meaning can be found through creativity, love, or acceptance of inevitable suffering.

Techniques:

— Paradoxical intention (working with anxious thoughts by “intensifying” them).

— Derealization of goals (helping the client see new perspectives).

3. Gestalt therapy

Gestalt therapy focuses on awareness of the present moment and taking responsibility for one’s feelings and actions.

How it helps:

— Helps a person integrate past experiences and “close” unfinished situations.

— Supports acceptance of one’s emotions and states.

Techniques:

— Working with an empty chair (talking to an “imaginary part of yourself” or another significant image).

— Focus on the body and its reactions to become aware of emotional blocks.

4. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)

While CBT is traditionally used to treat depression and anxiety disorders, it can also help with existential crises.

Main tasks:

— Correction of negative thoughts about yourself and the world.

— Formation of a constructive perception of uncertainty and the finiteness of life.

Techniques:

— Rewriting negative beliefs about the meaning of life.

— Creation of new behavioral patterns that bring satisfaction.

5. Mindfulness-Based Therapy

Mindfulness helps a person accept their feelings and existence as they are, without judgment and fear.

Effect:

— Reduction of anxiety and emotional stress.

— The ability to enjoy the present moment.

Practices:

— Mindfulness meditation.

— Working with breathing and bodily sensations.

6. Psychodynamic therapy

This method is based on the understanding of internal conflicts and their roots in a person’s past experiences.

How it helps:

— Helps to identify and understand unconscious fears associated with death and loss of meaning.

— Strengthens personal boundaries and the ability to withstand existential anxiety.

7. Therapy with an emphasis on spirituality

If the client is interested in spiritual issues, therapy may include discussion of the philosophical and spiritual aspects of life and death.

Elements:

— Research of personal beliefs and values.

— Searching for new meanings through spiritual practices.

Cognitive behavioral therapy

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is an effective psychotherapeutic method that helps change negative thought patterns and behavioral responses to stressful situations. While CBT is traditionally used to treat depression and anxiety disorders, it has also been successfully applied to existential crises.

Features of existential crisis in the context of CBT

An existential crisis is often accompanied by obsessive negative thoughts and internal conflicts:

— “My life has no meaning.”

— “I’m afraid of death.”

— “Everything I do is useless.”

— “A chaotic and unjust world”.

These beliefs create a vicious cycle of fear, anxiety, and alienation. CBT helps you recognize and change these thoughts by offering new cognitive strategies.

CBT methods for dealing with existential crisis

— Identification and restructuring of irrational beliefs

— Many negative thoughts about the lack of meaning in life or the fear of death are hypothetical.

— The therapist’s task is to help the client become aware of automatic thoughts and analyze them.

— The “Cognitive Triangle” method is used (the relationship between thoughts, feelings and behavior).

Example:

Instead of the belief “My life is meaningless,” a new thought is formed: “I can create meaning in my life through actions and goals.”

— Decatastrophization (debunking catastrophic expectations)

— People experiencing an existential crisis often tend to dramatize their situation and perceive life as full of chaos and pain.

— The therapist helps the client consider more realistic scenarios.

— The “What if?” technique is used to reduce anxiety.

— Shifting focus to values and goals

— Instead of focusing on the inevitability of death and the meaninglessness of existence, the client is encouraged to concentrate on what is truly important to them.

— Formation of short-term and long-term goals.

— Exercise “Value Compass” for finding personal guidelines.

— Working with negative thinking patterns

— The therapist helps to identify deep-seated beliefs (for example, “For life to have meaning, everything must be perfect”).

— These beliefs are replaced by more flexible attitudes: “Even in an imperfect life, you can find moments of joy and meaning.”

— Exposure therapy for fear of death (thanatophobia)

— Gradually immersing oneself in the discussion and analysis of the topic of death helps to reduce the intensity of fear.

— Written exercises and visualization are used.

— Mindfulness practice and working with the present moment

— Mindfulness techniques help clients focus on the present moment instead of obsessively thinking about the future or the past.

— Meditations, breathing exercises, mindfulness journals.

Examples of CBT exercises for overcoming an existential crisis

— Diary of cognitive distortions

— Write down disturbing thoughts about the meaning of life, analyze them and formulate alternative views.

— Exercise “Five Reasons to Live”

— Find and describe five reasons why your life is important or could become meaningful.

— Behavioral experiments

— Try new activities that align with your values to see if they bring you satisfaction.

Examples of CBT exercises for dealing with an existential crisis

These exercises help you become aware of and change negative thoughts related to existential issues such as the meaning of life, fear of death, and finding purpose in life.

1. Automatic Thought Diary

Objective: To identify and analyze negative beliefs about life and death.

Instructions:

— For a week, record anxious or depressive thoughts related to questions about the meaning of life, the future, or the finiteness of existence.

— Write down the situation that caused the thought, emotion, its intensity (from 0 to 10), as well as the thought that came to mind.

Example:

— Situation: Conversation with a friend about aging.

— Thought: “I will never achieve what I want.”

— Emotion: Disappointment (7/10).

— Alternative thought: “I can choose new goals that are within my capabilities.”

2. Exercise “Wheel of Values”

Objective: To define personal values and meanings of life.

Instructions:

— Draw a circle and divide it into several segments, such as: work, family, friendship, creativity, spirituality, health and development.

— Rate how important each area is for you now (on a scale from 0 to 10).

— Write down what can be done to strengthen the segments that are important to you.

Example:

— Family: Importance — 9. “I want to spend more time with my parents.”

— Creativity: Importance — 6. “I’ll try to enroll in a painting course.”

3. “What if?” (Decatastrophizing Technique)

Goal: To reduce the intensity of catastrophic thoughts about the meaning of life or death.

Instructions:

— Write down the frightening thoughts associated with the crisis.

— Answer the question: “What is the worst that can happen if this is true?”

— Keep asking “What if?” until you come to a realistic conclusion.

Example:

— Thought: “My life has no meaning.”

— What if it’s true? “I won’t be happy.”

— What if I’m not happy? “I can find joy in individual moments.”

4. Behavioral experiment “Making meaning”

Objective: To test the hypothesis that actions can bring satisfaction and meaning.

Instructions:

— Choose an activity that has the potential to be meaningful to you (e.g. volunteering, creativity).

— Engage in this activity for a week.

— Rate your level of satisfaction (on a scale from 0 to 10) and consider what value this activity brings.

Example:

— Volunteering at an animal shelter.

— Satisfaction — 8. “I realized that I can be useful.”

5. Exercise “Letter to Your Future Self”

Goal: Rethinking your goals and the meaning of life.

Instructions:

— Imagine yourself in 10 years.

— Write a letter from the perspective of this “future self,” in which you tell about what you have overcome and what you have achieved.

— Think about what actions now will help you get closer to your desired state.

6. Meditation on Acceptance of Finitude (Exposure Technique)

Goal: To reduce fear of death and uncertainty.

Instructions:

— Make yourself comfortable and close your eyes.

— Observe your breathing for several minutes.

— Imagine that life is finite, but every moment of it is unique.

— Try to accept this thought without fear.

Reflection: What emotions did this practice evoke?

7. Exercise “5 reasons to live”

Goal: Finding positive aspects of life and motivation to continue living it to the fullest.

Instructions:

— Find five reasons why you want to live and continue to act.

— Write them down and think about how you can strengthen each of these reasons.

Example:

— “My family.”

— “I want to see the world.”

— “I love creating something new.”

An example of a CBT therapy session for dealing with an existential crisis

Context:

Client Ivan, 35, complained of a sense of meaninglessness in life, constant thoughts about death, and a fear of “not living life to the fullest.” He also experienced apathy and loss of interest in his former hobbies.

Beginning a Session (Establishing Contact)

Therapist:

— Ivan, it’s good to see you today. How are you feeling?

Ivan:

— Honestly, it’s the same old story. Every day it’s the same: I wake up and immediately think, “Why am I even living?” Everything seems so empty.

Therapist:

“I hear you’re going through a lot of difficult thoughts. Today we can try to understand them and see how we can work through them.”

Thought exploration stage (Identification of automatic beliefs)

Therapist:

— Let’s try focusing on what you feel and think when these thoughts come to you. For example, was there a specific situation recently when this feeling of meaninglessness became particularly intense?

Ivan:

— Yes, last night. I was watching a movie where the main character achieved everything he wanted. And I suddenly thought, “What have I done with my life?”

Therapist:

— I understand. When this thought came to you, what did you feel?

Ivan:

— Immediately anxiety. As if there was no time left. I just sit and do nothing.

Working with thoughts (Cognitive restructuring)

Therapist:

— Let’s dwell on this thought: “There’s no time left.” How confident are you in its truthfulness on a scale of 0 to 10?

Ivan:

— Probably 8 or 9.

Therapist:

— Is there any evidence that time really does not exist?

Ivan:

— Well… I’m not an old man yet, I’m only 35. But sometimes it seems like I’ve already missed so many opportunities.

Therapist:

— So you’re noticing that the idea of “there’s no time” isn’t entirely objective. Perhaps it’s more accurate to say, “I’ve missed some opportunities, but I still have time for new solutions.” How do you like that formulation?

Ivan:

— Yes, that sounds a little easier.

Decatastropheization

Therapist:

— Let’s imagine that even if you missed some opportunities, what’s the worst that could happen?

Ivan:

— Well… maybe I’ll never become successful or achieve anything great.

Therapist:

— And what would it mean for you “not to achieve something great”?

Ivan:

“Maybe it’s not as important as I imagined. I’d just like to live an interesting and enjoyable life.”

Focus on Values and Actions (Searching for New Meanings)

Therapist:

— If you imagine that “living interestingly and with pleasure” is your goal, what small steps could you take right now to feel more satisfied with your life?

Ivan:

— Maybe I should start drawing again. I used to love it, but I gave it up.

Therapist:

“That’s a great idea. Let’s agree that next week you’ll try to set aside at least one evening for this activity. How do you feel about that?”

Ivan:

— I think I’ll try.

Summary and homework

Therapist:

Today we explored your thoughts about time and the meaning of life. You found a more constructive formulation of your beliefs and remembered an activity that’s important to you. Let’s agree: you’ll try setting aside an evening to draw and observe your emotions. How do you like that plan?

Ivan:

— Yes, it suits me.

Therapist:

— Great, then see you in a week.

Session summary:

— An automatic thought has been identified: “There is no more time.”

— Her cognitive restructuring was carried out: “I still have time for new decisions.”

— The fear of “not having time to live with dignity” has been decatastrophized.

— Actions are planned that correspond to the client’s personal values (return to drawing).

Outcomes of therapy for existential crisis using CBT

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) has significant positive effects on people experiencing existential crises. Below are the key changes and achievements clients can achieve through therapy.

1. Recognize and change destructive thought patterns

CBT helps clients:

— Recognize and analyze automatic negative thoughts associated with the feeling of meaninglessness of life.

— Replace catastrophic beliefs (“Life has no meaning”) with more constructive attitudes (“I can create meaning through actions and goals”).

Result:

The client feels less anxiety and hopelessness and learns to perceive life more flexibly and optimistically.

2. Reduction of anxiety and fear of death (thanatophobia)

Exposure and decatastrophizing techniques allow clients to:

— Gradually reduce the intensity of fear of one’s own mortality.

— Accept the finiteness of life as an inevitable, but not threatening, part of existence.

Result:

The level of fear and obsessive thoughts about death decreases, which contributes to an improved quality of life.

3. Formation of new meanings and life goals

Working with values and goal setting helps the client:

— Determine what is truly important in life (family, creativity, helping others).

— Set new short-term and long-term goals.

Result:

A sense of direction and internal motivation for action appears.

4. Increased activity and involvement in life

Behavioral experiments and positive action work help clients:

— Restore or find new hobbies and interests.

— Feel satisfaction from small achievements.

Result:

The client begins to notice joy and meaning even in everyday situations.

5. Strengthening emotional regulation skills

CBT techniques (mindfulness, anxiety management) help:

— Coping with emotional outbursts.

— Better understand and accept your emotions.

Result:

The client becomes more emotionally stable and able to respond constructively to life’s difficulties.

6. Overcoming feelings of hopelessness and apathy

Through systematic work, the client gradually finds support in the present moment and accepts their life with its imperfections.

Result:

The feeling of hopelessness decreases and a readiness for change appears.

Example of a successful result:

Client Ivan, who initially considered his life meaningless, after a course of CBT:

— I realized the importance of creativity and resumed drawing.

— I set new goals in life: spending time with my family and participating in an exhibition of my works.

— Reduction of anxious thoughts about time and fear of death.

— I felt an improvement in my mood and increased satisfaction with life.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is a contemporary approach to psychotherapy that helps people accept their inner experiences and act in accordance with their personal values despite difficulties. ACT is particularly effective for dealing with existential crises due to its philosophical and practical approach to questions of the meaning of life, fear of death, and the search for values.

ACT’s Basic Principles for Dealing with Existential Crisis

— Acceptance

— Instead of fighting negative thoughts and emotions, the client learns to accept them without judgment.

— Recognizing the inevitability of life’s finiteness and the associated anxieties helps reduce emotional stress.

— Cognitive diffusion

— The client separates himself from negative thoughts and stops perceiving them as absolute truth.

— For example, instead of “My life is meaningless,” the client learns to think: “I have the thought that my life is meaningless.”

— Contact with the present moment (mindfulness)

— The practice of being here and now helps to reduce ruminative thoughts about the past and future.

— I as a context (observing I)

— Developing the ability to see yourself not only through your thoughts and emotions, but as an observer of your experiences.

— Defining and adhering to values

— Instead of searching for an abstract “meaning of life,” the client focuses on their personal values.

— It helps to find satisfaction through action, even if global questions remain unanswered.

— Mandatory action

— Supporting active behavior despite internal difficulties or existential fears.

Examples of ACT exercises for dealing with an existential crisis

1. Exercise “Thought Sheet”

Goal: Awareness and acceptance of obsessive existential thoughts.

— Write down on a piece of paper all your thoughts about the meaninglessness of life or the fear of death.

— Imagine that these thoughts are leaves floating down the river.

— Let each leaf float away without clinging to it.

2. Working with values (“Values vs. goals”)

Objective: To define key values and implement them.

— Write down 3–5 most significant areas of your life (family, creativity, development).

— Under each area, identify actions that reflect these values.

— Remember: values are guidelines, not final goals.

3. Meditation “Breathing and Acceptance”

Goal: Acceptance of the inevitability of fear and negative emotions.

— Concentrate on your breathing.

— Imagine your worries and fears as clouds passing by you.

— Don’t try to change them or remove them, just observe them.

4. “Three Steps to the Present Moment”

Goal: Contact with reality.

— Stop and pay attention to your surroundings.

— Notice three things you see, hear and feel.

— Take a deep breath and return to your actions.

5. Exercise “My Life Metaphor”

Goal: Awareness of the path of life.

— Answer the question: “If my life were a movie, a book, or a journey, what would it be like now?”

— Think about what you want to change in this metaphor.

Results of ACT therapy for existential crisis

— Acceptance of the inevitability of life’s limitations and death.

— Reduction in the intensity of negative thoughts and ruminative thoughts.

— Increased willingness to act in accordance with values.

— Improving quality of life and satisfaction even in conditions of uncertainty.

Examples of ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) exercises for an existential crisis

1. Exercise “Leaves on the River”

Goal: Acceptance of thoughts about the meaning of life, anxiety and fear of death.

Instructions:

— Sit in a comfortable position and close your eyes.

— Imagine a river with slowly flowing water.

— Imagine that every thought that comes to your mind is a leaf on the surface of a river.

— Don’t judge or analyze your thoughts, just watch the leaves float on the water and disappear over the horizon.

— If anxiety or fear arises, allow these emotions to float away with the river.

Effect:

Helps reduce emotional involvement and stop struggling with obsessive thoughts.

2. Exercise “Contact with Values”

Goal: Awareness of personal values instead of an abstract search for the meaning of life.

Instructions:

— Take a sheet of paper and divide it into two columns.

— In the first column, write 5–7 areas of life that are important to you (family, health, career, creativity, etc.).

— In the second column under each area, write down what exactly makes that area important to you (for example, “family is important because I want to support my loved ones”).

— Answer the question: “How can I live in accordance with these values today?”

Effect:

Helps to direct energy towards the implementation of meaningful actions instead of focusing on the search for global meaning.

3. Exercise “Breathing and acceptance”

Goal: Acceptance of difficult emotions and states.

Instructions:

— Find a quiet place where you will not be disturbed.

— Concentrate on your breathing, feeling the air enter and leave your body.

— Instead of trying to change unpleasant sensations (anxiety, apathy), gently accept their presence.

— Tell yourself: “I accept that this emotion can be here, and it does not define me.”

Effect:

Reduces the internal struggle with negative experiences and teaches one to treat them with acceptance.

4. Exercise “The Voice of the Dictator of the Mind” (Diffusion)

Goal: Awareness of negative thoughts and their separation from one’s own “I”.

Instructions:

— When you are overcome by thoughts about the meaninglessness of life (“I’m worthless,” “I’ll never succeed”), imagine that it is a cartoon character or a funny voice speaking.

— Repeat this thought out loud in this comical voice several times.

Effect:

Helps to reduce the severity of negative beliefs and perceive them as just thoughts, not facts.

5. Exercise: Writing a Life Metaphor

Objective: Awareness of the current life situation and its possible changes.

Instructions:

— Imagine that your life is a journey or a movie.

— Answer the following questions:

— Where am I now?

— What is the main theme of my “film”?

— What plot twists would I like to see next?

— Think about what steps will help you change the plot.

Effect:

Helps you rethink your life story and activate positive changes.

6. Exercise “Three minutes of mindfulness”

Goal: Return to the present moment.

Instructions:

— Close your eyes and take a deep breath.

— During the first minute, pay attention to your thoughts and feelings.

— During the second minute, focus on your breathing.

— At the last minute, become aware of the surrounding sounds and physical sensations.

Effect:

Reduces ruminative thoughts and helps the client strengthen contact with reality.

Example of a Therapy Session: ACT for an Existential Crisis

Client: A 35-year-old woman is experiencing an existential crisis, a sense of meaninglessness in life, anxiety about the finiteness of her existence, and fear that her achievements are not significant enough.

Therapist: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Specialist.

1. Opening the session (10 minutes)

Therapist:

— Today we’ll continue exploring your feelings about the meaning of life and the fear of its finitude. How are you feeling this week?

Client:

“It’s still the same. I can’t stop thinking that ultimately everything is meaningless. Even if I do something important, it won’t matter in a hundred years.”

Therapist:

It’s normal to encounter such thoughts, especially when we ask deep questions about life. Let’s try not to fight these thoughts today, but rather work on accepting them and focusing on what’s truly important to you right now.

2. Exercise “Leaves on the River” (15 minutes)

Therapist:

“I’d like to suggest a little exercise. Close your eyes and imagine a slowly flowing river. Every thought that comes to your mind is a leaf floating on the water. Simply observe these leaves floating, without trying to stop them or change their shape.”

(After several minutes of silence)

Therapist:

— What thoughts came to your mind?

Client:

— There were thoughts that I was wasting my time, that it was all pointless.

Therapist:

— And what did you do with these thoughts?

Client:

— I just let them float by. It was weird, but it helped a little.

Therapist:

— Exactly. We can’t get rid of these thoughts, but we can stop letting them control our actions.

3. Working with values (20 minutes)

Therapist:

Let’s talk about your values. If the meaning of life isn’t leaving a lasting legacy, then what could be important to you here and now?

Client:

“I think my relationships with my loved ones are important. I want to spend more time with my family. And I enjoy being creative, although I haven’t done it in a while.”

Therapist:

— These sound like values that are important to you: connection with loved ones and self-expression through creativity. What could you do this week to live in alignment with these values?

Client:

“Maybe I can spend an evening with my family without my phone. And try drawing again, at least for half an hour.”

Therapist:

— Excellent. Remember, these aren’t tasks that need to be completed perfectly, but simply ways to move toward what’s important to you.

4. Closing the session (5 minutes)

Therapist:

— You’ve done a great job today: you’ve embraced challenging thoughts and identified values that will help you feel more present in the present moment. How are you feeling now?

Client:

— Easier. Maybe I shouldn’t try to “defeat” my thoughts, but simply live alongside them.

Therapist:

— Exactly. Let’s agree that next week you’ll try to spend an evening with your family and devote a little time to creativity.

Results and outcomes:

— The client learned to accept thoughts about the meaninglessness of life instead of fighting them.

— Key values have been identified: family and creativity.

— Specific actions have been established to implement the values.

— The client felt a decrease in anxiety levels and an increased sense of direction in life.

Psychoanalytic therapy

Psychoanalytic therapy and existential crisis psychotherapy are two approaches to psychotherapy that may overlap, but they have different focuses and methods of working with clients.

Psychoanalytic therapy:

Psychoanalysis, based on the work of Sigmund Freud, focuses on the exploration of unconscious processes, conflicts, and experiences that can influence human behavior. Emphasis is placed on the interaction between the conscious and unconscious minds, as well as defense mechanisms. Psychoanalytic therapy helps clients understand which unconscious factors may influence their everyday decisions and relationships, often through dream interpretation, free association, resistance, and other psychoanalytic techniques.

The goal of psychoanalysis is to enable the client to become aware of the hidden sources of their problems, which can lead to a deep processing of emotional and cognitive blocks.

Psychotherapy for existential crisis:

An existential crisis involves internal questions about the meaning of life, identity, fear of death, loneliness, freedom, and responsibility. This crisis can arise at various stages of life, for example, in midlife, when a person realizes the temporariness of their existence, or in situations of significant change (divorce, loss of a loved one, job loss, etc.).

Existential crisis psychotherapy focuses on helping people recognize their freedom and accept responsibility for their lives and choices. It aims to help people find meaning in everyday life, even when the world doesn’t provide objective answers. This approach is most often associated with authors such as Viktor Frankl (logotherapy), Rollo May, and Irvin Yalom.

Unlike psychoanalysis, which works with unconscious processes, existential psychotherapy focuses on the client’s personal experiences and decisions, trying to help them find meaning and purpose in life.

Comparison of approaches:

— Focus: Psychoanalysis works with unconscious conflicts and childhood experiences, while existential therapy focuses on finding meaning and accepting existing existential problems.

— Methods: Psychoanalysis uses long-term work through interpretation and awareness of unconscious processes, while existential therapy often uses dialogue, philosophical reflection, and work with the client’s actual existential experiences.

— Purpose: Psychoanalysis aims to integrate unconscious processes and resolve internal conflicts, while existential therapy helps the client find their own understanding of life and acceptance of existential questions.

Here are some examples of exercises for each of these therapies that can be helpful when working with a client in psychoanalytic therapy and existential crisis psychotherapy.

Examples of exercises for psychoanalytic therapy:

— Free association: This is a basic psychoanalytic method in which the client is encouraged to express whatever comes to mind without filtering their thoughts, even if they seem strange or nonsensical. The psychotherapist helps to identify hidden feelings, desires, and unconscious thoughts that may be related to the client’s problems.

How it’s done:

— The client sits in a comfortable position and begins to talk about whatever comes to mind. These could be memories, images, dreams, sensations.

— The psychotherapist listens, asks clarifying questions, and helps the client analyze the associations they receive.

— Working with resistance: Resistance is a defense mechanism where a client avoids certain topics or feelings. A psychoanalyst helps identify these issues, understand their meaning, and work through them.

How it’s done:

— A psychotherapist may notice that a client avoids discussing a certain topic or situation.

— It helps to understand the reasons for resistance, for example, by asking: “What prevents you from talking about this?” or “How do you feel when you start thinking about this?”

— Dream Interpretation: Dreams are an important tool in psychoanalysis, as they are considered gateways to the unconscious. The client shares their dreams, and the psychotherapist helps interpret their content, revealing hidden thoughts and desires.

How it’s done:

— The client writes down his dreams and describes them to the psychotherapist.

— The psychotherapist analyzes symbols in dreams and helps the client interpret them in the context of their life and emotions.

— Working with transference: Transference is the process whereby a client projects feelings they have experienced toward important people in their life onto the therapist. The psychoanalyst helps the client recognize and analyze these feelings.

How it’s done:

— The psychotherapist notices when the client begins to demonstrate strong emotions (love, aggression, discontent, etc.) directed at the therapist.

— He helps the client understand what relationships from the past may be connected to these feelings.

Examples of exercises for psychotherapy of existential crisis:

— Working with the question of the meaning of life: This exercise helps a person begin to reflect on what is important to him in life, what gives it meaning, and what seems meaningless.

How it’s done:

— The psychotherapist asks the client open-ended questions: “What gives meaning to your life?” or “What moments in life make you feel alive?”

— The client is asked to write down the answers and then consider what is most important and how it can be integrated into everyday life.

— Meditation on Death: This exercise aims to help a person understand their mortality and, perhaps, free themselves from the fear of death. By working with this experience, the client can begin to appreciate every moment of their life.

How it’s done:

— The psychotherapist asks the client to imagine themselves dead and ask themselves, “What would you like to be said about you? What is important to leave behind?”

— The client then thinks about what important goals they could set for their life in order to create a more conscious and fulfilling reality.

— Reflection on Freedom and Responsibility: Existential therapy often touches on the concepts of freedom and responsibility. This exercise helps a person recognize their ability to make choices and take responsibility for their life.

How it’s done:

— The psychotherapist asks the client to choose one area of life in which he feels limited and asks him to analyze what freedoms he actually has in this area.

— For example, a client can work with how they choose their work, relationships, place of residence, and understand what actions they can take to change their situation.

— Letter to Your Future Self: This exercise helps a person become aware of their desires and goals for the future and see how they can move towards a more fulfilling existence.

How it’s done:

— The client writes a letter to himself in 5 or 10 years, describing what he wants to be like and what he wants to achieve.

“It’s important to consider all areas of life in the letter: career, personal relationships, emotional state. The therapist helps the client understand what needs to be done to move toward these goals.”

— Reflection on the Acceptance of Loneliness: Existential psychotherapy often helps people cope with feelings of loneliness, which stem from the awareness of one’s isolation and uniqueness. This exercise is aimed at accepting loneliness and finding inner peace.

How it’s done:

— A psychotherapist may suggest that the client spend some time alone (for example, a day or a few hours) and then analyze their feelings and sensations. It’s important to focus on what this solitude can provide — for example, space for personal reflection and self-development.

An example of a therapeutic session in psychoanalytic therapy:

Situation: A client (let’s call him Andrey) comes to us complaining of constant anxiety and unresolved conflicts in his personal relationships. He feels he can’t establish healthy relationships, and this is affecting his overall life.

Session 1:

— Session starts: